Wedding Checklist
Setting Your Priorities
Marriage License
You must get your license in the county that you will be married in.
The Yellow Turtle Inn is in Carroll County
55 North Court Street (Off Center Street)
Room G8
Westminster, Md 21157

Hours: 8:30 to 4:30 Monday through Friday only
Phone: 410 386 2985
          888 302 8927

Waiting period: 48 Hours
Military can get an exception

Cost:   $35 Cash

You will need:
Full names
Picture ID (drivers license)
Address
Ages
Social Security #'s
State of Birth
Single?
Divorced?
   Date
    County and State Registered
Death of Spouse?
    Date
    County & State

To pick up the license, at least one of you must appear in person at least 48 hours before the ceremony with the information listed above. the License is good for 6 months.

For non resident contact Karman Cashman 410 386 2002
If you are out of state or out of Carroll County, you may go to any marriage clerk office and ask for a "Foreign Application" form. Fill it out in front of the clerk and have them sign it. Then bring the form to the Carroll County office or have their office send it to the Carroll County office. Then you can pick up your license in Carroll County. I suggest that you call to be sure that they received it and everything is in order.

If you are military, you may go to the clerks office the same day you wish to get married, fill out the form, have the judge sign it and receive your license. The judge can wave the 48 hour waiting period.

Officiants
If you do not already have an officiant, you will need to be finding someone you respect that is available for your date.
Many offer premarital counseling. I hope you will take advantage of this service. Learning to communicate is so essential in a good marriage.

Christ Evangelical Lutheran Church
Pastor Michael C Adams - Luthren 410 239 4791 
                         410 916 1919 Cell



Pastor Richard Michael
St James Lutheran Church - Union Bridge  410 259 0967
If you prefer to be married in a church, Pastor Michael has two very quaint churches about 7 miles from the Yellow Turtle Inn.



Franklin Lance, M.Div.,Pastor 410 792 0855 410669 1800
Mt. Lebanon Baptist Church



Pastor Bill Rumbaugh - New Hope Fellowship Church -410 596 8745
pastorbill@nhfchurch.org



St Paul's United Methodist Church 410 635 2442 
or 410 848 0706 or her cell 410 259 4146

Stone Chapel United Methodist Church 410 635  2102

New Windsor Presbyterian Church 410 848 0573 
   Pastor Paul Mathews

Westminster Lutheran -Pastor David Schafer 410 848 3311
443 789 1271

Westminster United Methodist Church 410 848 8325
St Johns Roman Catholic Church 410 848 4744

Cindy Grove  410 729 7262 non-denominational


Pastor Highfield 410 876 2124 ext 14
609 W Main St , Westminster United Methodist Church

Rev.Alberta Eaton 410 256 5330
revalbertaeaton@yahoo.com
Nondenominational Ministerial Services
Interfaith
Florists

The Cuttng Garden 410 751 9015

Dutterers  410 848 9350

The Flower Box 410 848 5565
Hock's Floral Design 800 626 2837
Flowers by Evelyn
Safeway
BJ's sells roses for $15 a dozen
Giant Grocery Store

I offer center pieces of 1 dozen roses $30 each center piece. I will have them placed on the tables and ready for your reception.
         Next Select a Caterer
I am not a caterer so you must hire a licensed caterer to prepare and serve your food.
Your may bring your own caterer to the Inn.
Below are caterers who have done a nice job at the Inn
The Brass Elephant
Daniel Raffel, Director of Catering 410 547 8480
410 783 2933 Fax

Harry's Catering 410 848 7080 harrysgrille@earthlink.net

Great Occasions 410-668-6082
6809 Bel Air road Baltimore MD 21206
 
Marina Cuisina 410 549 5215

Cater and Savor 410 848 3590
Buckingham Services
Trish Buckingham

Paradiso's Restorante 410 857 1421

A Chefs Connection 443 789 4820
Chef Lu Ann Funk
tastefulcatering@xecu.net

The  Porter's Catering House
Courtney Porter
410 404 8856
theporterscateringhouse@verizon.net

Quality Style Catering
Vegetarian Speciality
443 802 1627

Jacqueline"s Catering
443 722 8984
Cakes
Tastefully Ever After
Marie and Michellee Moors
301 418 0745

Wedding Cakes
Just Desserts by Linda
Custom Decorated Wedding Cakes
Westminster, Md
410 848 2157
www.justdessertsbylinda.com

Carriage House Candy & Bake Shop
Mt Pleasant
On Rt 26
They make 6",9",10",12",14"16" round cakes
301 898 7559

Heinz Bakery
42 West Main Street, Westminster, MD 21157
(410) 848-0808
They make a two tiered cake that feeds about 35 people for $45. They close by 2PM. So call early.
Carriage Livery Service

J-Mar B
Smith Hill Farm
343 Springdale Road
New Windsor, Md. 21776

410 848 9015

Love is like the sun coming out of the clouds
and warming your soul
How do I plan a wedding?

Weddings can be as Simple or Complicated as you choose to make it.
Perhaps these questions will help you organize your thinking.

These four things determine most everything
Budget
Location
Date of Wedding
Officiant availability

Your next Questions
Time of the Wedding Ceremony
Number in Your Wedding Party
(I can comfortably accommodate from 2 to 75)
Number of Guests invited and expected to come

Remember I can also do Only Us Weddings with just 2 to 14 if this is all too much for you.
Food
Caterer - You will need to meet with your caterer to make decisions
What kind of food service -
the time of the wedding will dictate the kind of food service
Sit Down - buffet - food stations - butlered - Desserts
menu selection - caterer will help you with this
Caterer will supply the table settings, napkins and tablecloths

Music
Live - CD's - Burn your own CD's - DJ?
Wedding Ceremony Music
Reception Music
First Dance music with Bride/Groom - Mother/Father

Wedding Theme
Is there something you always dreamed about?
Colors
Flowers
What flowers are you using - center pieces - Gabezo Flowers -
Florist
Bouquet - nosegay, cascade, hand tied or clutch with natural stems
Do you need help with this? I can be of service here too
Decorations - I invite you to come ahead of time to decide what you want to do. Bring your camera
Wedding atmosphere
Elegant - Casual -  Picnic  - Formal -  Sophisticated  - Informal
Favors - as  part of center pieces?
Bubbles?
Place Names for Seating is recommended

Rehearsal
You probably already know we have great rehearsal dinners here and this will give you more time to decorate for your day.   .

Rehearsal Dinner choices:
Formal Dinner at the Yellow Turtle Inn,
Informal Buffet Dinners
Pizza on the porch at the Yellow Turtle Inn

Accommadations
Many times the women of the bridal party stay the night before the wedding and get ready here. This gives more time for decorating and less running around on your wedding day.
I provide a breakfast baskets for you and your bridal party to eat as they are getting ready
I can also provide a deli tray and drinks (iced tea and sodas) for lunch
The less you have to do and can stay in one place, the less stressed you will be.
I can also provide accommodations for your special guests the night before and the Night of the Wedding and a brunch the following morning after the wedding.

I much rather have the entire Inn filled with your special people.
Where can the rest of your guest find night lodging?
I will be happy to supply a list upon request.

Bridal Party Guests
Your wedding guests will need to make their own reservations and confirm with a credit card. Rooms held for wedding guests are considered non cancellation reservations with no refund.

Wedding Cake
Ask the caterer if he will provide this.

You can also pick up several cakes from the grocery store and display them on my circular stand for a lovely effect. This can save a whole lot. Some brides also pick up cheesecake and cookies from the store as an extra offering.

The bride and groom cut the first cut for photos.
The caterer will continue to cut the cake and serve it after the first cut.
This is usually done after the meal and toast.

Garter - Bouquet Tossing - is this a tradition you wish to do?

Are there any delicate situations?
Parents, step parents, handicap, elderly
These should be discussed 


Bring a change of shoes for those tired feet. New shoes hurt!
Barefeet are not allowed.

Who is responsible for returning all the tux? Have the wedding party bring a change of clothes for after the wedding so that everything gets returned and there will not be any late fees.

Assign someone responsible to collect the gifts following the ceremony.

If you have children, bring something for them to do. They do get bored!

Now was that so hard?  I will be happy to help you in what ever way you wish.


Tell a friend about this page
Email your invitations on line
Love is not blind -
It sees more and not less,

but because it sees more
It is willing to see less
Will Moss
Love is the only thing you get more of by giving it away
Tom Wilson
More  Resources
Class Act Formal Wear  -Beautiful Gowns!!!
Town Mall -Westminster 410 751 9906

Cecelia's Bridal's  410 848 8892

Unique Jewelry - Custom Crafted for the Individual 410 876 5390

Country View Tuxedo  410 857 7601

On The Town Limousines, Inc 301 829 7999      1 866 829 7999

Mary Kay  - Mary Kathryn Dunkle -Independent Beauty Consultant

Dixon's Flowers, Inc  800 545 0657

Hydrangeas -flowersbulbs.com

The Flower Exchange

Bridal Elegance 410 795 8373  Wedding Gown Rentals

Daryl Long DJ   -D-Man Music Productions
717359 0221   or 443 722 8612

Brian Muhl DJ
M and B Entertainment
Music for All Occasions
443 803 0534

DJ -Fred Manangela
The Quiet DJ
410 437 9393
410 458 8504

Butterfly Release - Renaissance Butterflies.com
If you do a butterfly release, I suggest a box release rather than individual release

Insect Lore  (Butterflies)  800 548 3284

Doves In Flight 410 665 7032

Wedding Doves for Love 410 592 1150 -be sure to have a proper cage, food and water ready for the care and safety of the birds!!!!!!!

Center pieces and favors www.wanderfuls.com  1-888-539-5521

MUSIC
Jo Morrison Celtic Harp 410 875 0855
Email  -harp@triharpskel.com

Strings On Wings - Todd Clewell and Friends  717 880 2540
Traditional singing, guitar and fiddle tunes and waltzes in the Celtic, New England, French Canadian and Appalachian styles.
Email - tclewell1@msn.com
A peaceful invitation to your soul
Back to wedding choices
How do I tell guests to get to the Yellow Turlte Inn?
What understandings do we have to have a lovely affair?
Here is a layout of the property and Courtyard set up possibilities
Want to really enjoy your day in a more relaxed state?
How much does a wedding cost?
Some Caterers who have been at the
Yellow Turtle Inn
  Ordained Ministers
How do I plan my wedding?
Florists
in the
Area
How do I plan a wedding at the Yellow Turtle Inn?
Daryl Long DJ
First things First
Make up your guest list - 2 to 75 guests
Make an appointment to come see the Yellow Turtle Inn .
If you book your date within two weeks of our first meeting, you receive a whirlpool suite complimentary.
Pick your  date.
Put down a non refundable deposit of $200 to hold your date.
Next, I will email you an information and pricing worksheet for you to fill out and email back to me






Then I will email a contract for you to read. We will then meet again to sign your contract, put down 50% and plan Your Day


Where do I start?
Pastor Michael Adams
Hot Air Balloon Rides at Weddings
Friendship Hot Air Balloon
410 442 556

Wedding Tour Appointments

I make appointments to tour the Inn
on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday
from noon to 8PM
and on
Sundays  From 2PM to 8PM -if there is no wedding going on
Please do not "just drop in".
 
Please  arrive on time.
I set aside enough time for you so that you may ask all your questions.
If for some reason you are delayed or cannot make your appointment,
please call and let me know. I allow a window waiting time of 15 minutes.
I appreciate it when you turn off your cell phones before our meeting.
Here is a checklist for your rehearsal and wedding day. This may help you organize your time.
From rehearsal to wedding night - a planning agenda
Photographers
Dave Corbin - Portrait Studio
270 410 876 2703

Custom Wedding Photography  - Shan Gorden

Kevin A Peters Eyes to the Soul Photography

The Art of Life Itself -Documentary Wedding Photography -Robin  Shotola  443 271  0579

Kevin Kennedy 301 404 0013

AJ Photography
James Jarrell Photographer 240 446 4592
jimjarrell@ajphotographyonline.com
www.ajphotographyonline.com
Where do we go to get our license?
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations
To Baltimore
45 Mins
To Gettysburg,Pa
40 Mins
To Frederick
30 Mins
To Wash,DC
1+ Hour Approx
To Wash,DC
1+ Hour Approx
Yellow Turtle Inn
What understandings do we have to have a lovely affair?
Going to the courthouse? Want to make it special?
A deal of a lifetime
Ceremony for 70 with a reception for 16
Ceremony for 70 with a reception for 16
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations
Printable directions you may wish to include in your invitations